Follow the Anger…

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Gang, this is a bit of an unusual post, but I am asking y’all to stay with me.

We look for and celebrate the design G-d places in us, and, sometimes, that means we follow some unorthodox methods to identify that design.

Now, anger has often been characterized very negatively, and that is not without good reason.

However, I want to say something about anger. In most situations that include anger, there is a choice of what we do with the anger. Paul’s exhortation to the Ephesians to “Be angry and do not sin” implies that it is possible to engage in behavior that includes anger while also not crossing lines into behavior that is sinful.

Now, I am not saying that this is the case all of the time, but I believe the blanket exhortation to avoid anger is not generally helpful.

And like Clyde Fant, I am of the opinion that “righteous indignation is a twenty letter word for anger”.

Let me say that again two different ways. The need to use the words “righteous indignation” too often proceeds, from my experience, from a religious spirit or a spirit of being afraid of the full G-d-given experience of human emotion and free will.

To respond, instead of trotting out religious language for anger and USING THAT to justify an emotion of which we are afraid, it would be better to ascertain the root of our anger so we know what to do with it. Otherwise, we could be covering up a problem that our heart, mind, spirit, soul, or reins are trying to bring up.

Often, anger is rooted in two things: our sense of that which is just, and a violation of justice. It is not just because we are being selfish, arrogant, or proud.

To be sure, too often we are guilty of accusing of pride those who do not struggle with pride.

While some of you are wrestling with the idea that some believers do not struggle with pride, I will continue.

Indeed, there are qualities Father has built into certain of us that really incite zeal for excellence and effectiveness.

And coupled with those qualities are aspects that causes us to become rankled when excellence or effectiveness are mangled.

It is not pride or arrogance; rather it is anger as the King intended it to be the tool it is for provoking us to raise standards and hunt for better ways.

For example, when believers settle for a status quo try to move into something they know the King has for them….

…are corrected by other believers who either do not understand or do not want to understand try to correct us in accordance with a lower standard, then that friction creates issues.

In order to honor how the L-rd has uniquely made us, we really must move beyond avoiding all expressions of anger, hunt for and yearn for the G-d-ordained expressions of anger, nix religious expressions that blanket judge any expression of anger or frustration, and move into allowing ourselves to be pushed for “what is excellent…”. I would even bet money that those who are easily angered by slack-jawed expressions of faith have “what is excellent” in mind and are pushing for that excellent place.

Just some thoughts.

2 thoughts on “Follow the Anger…

  1. I’ve often said that anger is our alarm system alerting us, just as a smoke alarm would do, when something is wrong. It’s what we do with that anger that is sin or not sin.

    Excellent article. I’m still chuckling over the part where we might have to wrestle with the fact that some believers are humble and without pride.

  2. Excellent take on a topic that all to often is given a “religious response” that in so many words is “you better repent and get your heart right”.
    Indeed all of our emotions are given to us for a reason, discovering how they fit in our walk is definitely a key to who we really are.
    The new meaning of “guard your heart”?

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